Be Yourself

“We need to change according to our environment. I didn’t change, circumstances forced me to.” All these are very common statements. But I don’t believe in any of them.

According to me no person can ever change. His nature, his thoughts, his way of thinking will always be the same.

I have seen people who portray themselves in different ways at different places. It could be in means of their opinions, their personality or their thoughts.

They are basically hypocrites according to me. They don’t have the ability to show what they are. They always tend to follow others and be like them.

We need to ask ourselves also whether Wherever we are, do we show our true self or even we show that side of our personality what others want to see or what others would appreciate?

If one is doing so, he needs to understand that he is running away from his own self. By doing so, you will surely get temporary satisfaction but you will never be happy. One needs to be confident of what they are and the way they are.

Changing ourselves to be a part of the larger crowd is a sign of being a real COWARD.

Visit to a Slum School

I along with y friends visited Eklavya Balwadi. It’s a slum school in Andheri. It is specially made for the people of that slum by a trust. We went there for our CSR project.

The experience I had there was a very unique one.

The class was being taken in a small room. I can’t call it a classroom because it was not one.

Something that caught my attention immediately was some female students who seemed to be pretty big for a 4^th or 5^th standard. While talking to them I realized that 1 of those women was married and had a child who studied in his 1^st standard in a reputed convent school. She was here doing schooling as well. When asked why she was studying, she told us that she wanted to help her son and mainly she wanted to communicate with him in English. Now that was impressive. The best part was she got tremendous support from her husband. I was really shocked to hear that.

I always felt that it’s the uneducated family who never support their children, daughter-in-laws or wives for further education. But when I spoke to the staff members out there, they said that the families were very eager to send their children to the school for education. The only problem they face is financial. They don’t have the money and so they either send their children to work in an early age or marry off their daughters.

There were students who worked in the morning as house maids, came directly to school and again went for work in the night. Even with all these problems, they had a broad smile on their face. That inspired me even more.

We are busy with our own problems, but when we actually look around us, we will find people facing so much in life without complaining!

Life -- a Journey

Whenever we go for an outing, we always are in the best of our moods. Happy to the core. We want to enjoy, make new friends, and have loads of fun. We prefer not having any negativity around us. Because we know that we have to get back to the normal life soon and we want to enjoy the holiday to the fullest.

But why does everyone forget that Life is also a Journey. Why can’t we just be happy and make others happy in life normally. Why can’t we always be in the best of our moods?

Don’t you guys think we should utilize our lives to our best rather than spoiling it? But we don’t do so. Because we are busy complaining about a lot of things. And there are new complaints coming up almost every day! We are so busy thinking about the negative aspects around us, that we forget to be happy for the nice things we have. We have a lot of time to crib about the bad things but none of us have the time to make things better. All of us are very good at identifying problems but not many of us actually bother to find a solution to it.

Life is simple; it’s we who make it complicated.

We take life for granted and hence we forget it’s going to end someday. Our journey has begun the day we entered this world. Making our journey beautiful and worthwhile is completely in our hands.

And always remember if you are happy, you can create a nice and happy atmosphere around you and because of this you are making many more journeys beautiful.

Show That You Care...!!

Today I saw a family on the road. A couple with their 2 kids. The younger 1 was a notorious boy who would be around 3 yrs old and the daughter around 5 yrs old. Actually it was drizzling and the road was slippery.
The little boy started running on the road. Before his dad could go and hold his child, the little girl ran to her brother and held his hand and told him “You want to play, you can but don’t leave my hand.”
The parents were of course very happy at this sight. It was the cutest thing I have ever witnessed in my life.
I am sure the girl ran because somewhere she felt, she cared for her kid-bro. She herself was a very small kid. But she wanted her little bro to be safe as she cared for and loved him. Actually in every relation when we start caring about the other person, that’s the time, we can be sure we are taking the relation seriously. Be it friendship, love, family or anything else.
It is important to show that you care in every relation. You don’t have to go and say “hey I care for you.” Sometimes, just a small gesture from our side can make someone really happy. Because we all want to feel special at times. Any human will be happy when he knows that he is important, he is needed..!
Isn’t it??