“We need to change according to our environment. I didn’t change, circumstances forced me to.” All these are very common statements. But I don’t believe in any of them.
According to me no person can ever change. His nature, his thoughts, his way of thinking will always be the same.
I have seen people who portray themselves in different ways at different places. It could be in means of their opinions, their personality or their thoughts.
They are basically hypocrites according to me. They don’t have the ability to show what they are. They always tend to follow others and be like them.
We need to ask ourselves also whether Wherever we are, do we show our true self or even we show that side of our personality what others want to see or what others would appreciate?
If one is doing so, he needs to understand that he is running away from his own self. By doing so, you will surely get temporary satisfaction but you will never be happy. One needs to be confident of what they are and the way they are.
Changing ourselves to be a part of the larger crowd is a sign of being a real COWARD.
5 comments:
always remember that people that nag you to change...WOULDN'T ACCEPT CHANGE themselves.
nice post :)
actually m kinda confused abt the hypocrite thing. but as i said u r on the next level so nice post !
nice thought but to add on.i agree that people change and if yes change shud be for the gud.circumstances do tend to change ppl.for example after going thru a terrible face in life u get stronger.also our core self remains same but we tend to have a different freeness with different ppl.that makes us behave differently wid diff ppl.thats my obsevartion.
yeah..ur thaught is quite correct ..y shud any1 chng to be a part of d larger crowd..but u kno wht..smtimes ppl change because of his/her own needs...smtimes fate changes dem..nd 1 more thing circumstances do change a person..sm1 becomes herder prsn or sm1 becomes softer..i hv seen many ppl lyk dem..so i believe dat ppl do change..nd yeah most of d times his thaughts change about d world around him..diff ppl sees d wrld differently..but whn d hard truth comes in front of dem..dey r bound to change..
p.s:..for eg me...morning college so surfing net at night.. :P ...
by the way..nice post..keep on writing
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